Level 5 Process

Is your Desire Obtainment Process Paradoxical or Survival?

What are your values in regards to marriage, family, and community relationships? What is your credo? What do you consider the best way of communicating and interacting in this relationship? What are your ethics? What is your code of behavior? If you had to write a statement of beliefs, what would you say? What is your ideology concerning marriage, parenthood, family, or community? What principles do you govern your actions by? What are your philosophies about marriage, family, and community relationships? By what religion do you actually govern your actions?

Is the way you communicate and interact in your marriage, family, and community often self-contradictory? Is it part of your code of behavior to sacrifice obtaining your own needs in order to make sure your Specific Person’s are met first. Do you voluntarily live by ethics that sometimes require you to give up your own peace and comfort in order to help your Specific Person obtain his desires and resolve his conflicts? Do you have values to voluntarily sacrifice and not turn and revile again that may seem crazy to some people? Are you willing to endure for a time false judgments and other unpleasant behaviors in order to obtain a Compatible Relationship with your Specific Person? Even though you suffer more because of your love and complete devotion for your Specific Person than you otherwise would, do you continue to stick with him through difficult times? Rather than obtain rest to your soul now, do you seek eternal rest for you and your Specific Person? Are there times when you do things his way even though it may be slightly uncomfortable for you?

I have written my answer to this question in my Notebook and am ready to move on to the next question.
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