Assisting adults who have been abused or neglected as children to develop relationship skills through the atonement of Jesus Christ in order to develop Compatible Relationships and Sustainable Joy.
Does your Cause act self-contradictory in his relationship with you? Does his Desire to help you obtain compatibility in your marriage, family, and community relationships compete with being able to spend more time with his wife and family? Does it puzzle you that he gives up his present peace and comfort in order to help you develop sustainable relationships? Does it seem crazy that he would be willing to endure for a time yours and others’ false judgments of his intentions in order to help you obtain your Desires? Even though he suffers more in his relationship with you, does your Cause stick with you through difficult times? Rather than obtain rest to his soul now as he most surely could, does he seek eternal rest for you and your Specific Person? Does he allow your will, your way, and your Desires to a certain extent in order to find and establish the relationships that will work for your specific personality? Out of all your Causes (i.e., your biological parents, adoptive parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, grandparents, neighbors, and others in your community) which ones are Paradoxical? Which of your religious or community leaders are Paradoxical? What fiction and nonfiction books have you read that have Paradoxical Causes helping people obtain sustainable and compatible marriages, families, and community relationships? What TV or internet presentations have depicted characters who are Paradoxical?
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