Definition of Level 3 Effects

Are the Effects you experience Balanced?

This question is asking you:

Are you both feeling the same way about your relationship when you interact with each other? You may be feeling good vibes, but is your Specific Person? If you can’t just ask him or you’re unsure if he is being honest with you, how can you know for sure that the feeling is mutual?

Do you feel a spiritual or emotional hunger in the relationship? Do you feel like you can never be satisfied that your Specific Person is as committed to your relationship as much as you are?

Or do you feel a spiritual or emotional reticence when your interactions increase in number or proximity? Do you feel like your Specific Person expects more from the relationship than you're willing or able to give?

Or do you feel a sustainable sense of mutual attraction/respect/camaraderie? Do you feel a continuous energy that seems to circulate back and forth between you? This is a much more intense, complete, and sustainable Effect than you would feel if there was only a one-sided attraction. Relationships with one-sided attraction burn out in time. They can't last because the Effects won't sustain you.

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